Covenant

What this is. Why it's built this way.

This is

  • A porch light — steady, local, calm
  • A bulletin board for fathers helping fathers
  • Structured messages: wins, struggles, asks, offers
  • Real talk, practical takeaways
  • Anonymous by design
  • Offline-first — the real work happens in person

This is not

  • A feed
  • Social media
  • A debate arena
  • Therapy
  • Politics
  • Performance

Before You Write

Three things to hold:

  1. Not politics. Not therapy. Not a feed.
  2. Be brief. Be real. Be useful.
  3. Assume goodwill.

If it doesn't fit, save it for the meetup.


The Rules

  • One message at a time. Pick a type. Say what matters.
  • 500 characters max. Say what matters. Leave the rest.
  • No threads. Flat list. Most recent first. No pile-ons.
  • No likes. No reactions. Read it or don't.
  • Proof-of-work required. Your browser solves a small puzzle before posting. Keeps the pace calm.

Message Types

  • Win — Something that went right this week.
  • Struggle — One pressure point. No rants. Just the weight.
  • Ask — One question. Something you need help with.
  • Offer — One offer. Something you can share or do.
  • Reading — One quote and why it matters.

The Passphrase

You need the council passphrase to post.

It's shared in person at meetups. It rotates regularly.

This isn't a password. It's proof you showed up.

No account. No email. No sign-up. Come to a meetup, get the phrase, post when you have something worth sharing.


Why It's Built This Way

Anti-flood by construction.

Most platforms maximize engagement. This one minimizes noise.

  • No infinite scroll — just the last 25 messages
  • No algorithms — most recent only
  • No metrics — no likes, no views, no trending
  • No notifications — come back when you want to
  • Proof-of-work — a few seconds to post, by design
The porch light stays on. It doesn't flash.

After You Post

You'll receive a Lantern Receipt — a unique hash, your message type, and a timestamp.

Proof you contributed. No name attached.